CW - thanks. From the description - she is definitely MLC - but I don't know - she normal in some ways, MLC in others, WAS in others. Difficult to say other than she has changed and is a different person - but I guess thats why we are all here on this board. DivorceCare group last night was good - it felt real good to talk about things with people who can relate - just like our discussions here. Still feeling pain inside from last few conversations with W, but I didn't feel so alone when I went to the group, so that was good. Definitely going to make it a point to go Tuesday nights. W and I got LS just a month ago, so she is not filing for D that I know of yet. She is concerned about medical insurance from me right now, so I don't expect her to rush into D. She has always said from the day the dropped this on us that she wanted a LS for a year to see what she wants to do. As you said, can't believe anything really so we will see. Just trying to hold things together right now as best can be. My D11 is marching in the NYC St Patrick's Parade today - she's a baton twirler for her school - so I'm going to try during my lunch hour to run up to midtown Manhattan where they set up and see her off to start - may be the last year she does this - and the last year we are in NY. Gotta go - later.....
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
