Emotional unavailabilty is probably a good call during the period in 2009 when I was feeling depressed. Thats when W hooked up with OM.
Since then I was probably too needy after finding out about EA and since W left have begun LRT. IF relationship with OM ceases then I would look to do a 180 & think about meeting needs etc. Not sure being in a competition with OM would have been a good idea coz W is obsessed with OM & he is reciprocating but now that OMW knows the dynamic of the situation could be changing.
Willing to listen & learn from advice of others though!!
