Yes I do know the answer...keep detaching and keep GAL'ing.
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How do you feel about paying down 33% of your debt in one whack?
Feeling pretty good, I suspect that I'll be able to pay down another 10 - 20 % in the next few months.
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Maybe it is enabling her escape
Maybe it is maybe it isn't only she and God know. I cannot worry about it right now. I just need to keep being the man that I am - kind, gentle, responsible, loving, true, etc. Everything else is out of my control. As I said a few days ago...I am living for ME and my kids.
On a side note...she has been pretty "friendly" the past few days...She went food shopping and made it a point to point out the things that she picked up for me i.e. Yogurt, Rasin Bran, Chicken Breast, etc. "Eric - look I picked these up for you". For the record, I am not reading into any of it. I simply look at it "as if" she is just being nice - nothing more nothing less. I do have a question...In these cases how are we to interact with our MLC S? Is this where I apply the mirror approach? I do not want to give/open up too much to her so my answer tend to be "thank you", "yes", "have a good day". Any thoughts on how I should interact with her. The past few days have been much better for me - the detaching is really helping but as everyone has said takes time to master. I look forward to suggestions on how to interact with her. Remember we do have kids so we will need to have some form of communication for the foresable future.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
