Hey poet! I won't say it's good to see you here, but I do think you are in the right place!
I'm thinking your tbx was a bit of a loose cannon, am I remembering right? Like on the edge of dangerous? I hope that has settled down, as things are moving forward.
The best advice I can give right now is to really try not to take the crap that is sure to come your way personally. Try to leave the nastiness to the lawyers, and look at is as a difficult business transaction.
In the meantime, try to take good care of yourself, and keep your own sanity. Things will hurt, but try not to let the hurt take over your life. There's a lot of life left to be lived, and it can be great!