Well, I got your attention, so that's something. I have posted before, but that's not really important now.
I don't want to see you lose your kids. But I could sure see it happening. I would much rather see you change your way of doing things now. Coming here is good, talking to the men in your Bible study is good, but I do think you should seriously consider doing more. From here (and all I can go by is what you've written), it seems that both you and your XW are so intent on stabbing at each other that you have forgotten that every time you do it you are putting the kids in the middle. She's not here, so you get to hear me jump on my soapbox a bit.
No, nothing like this has ever happened to me. But I read it and I hurt for the kids, and that's why I posted. The way you live now is the example you are setting for your boys. I am pretty sure you can do a lot better.
I probably won't post to you again. I really don't get a kick out of telling people things they don't want to hear. But as a father of four boys myself, well, someone needed to speak up for the kids. Please try to take them out of the middle of your war with their mom. I know that she uses them as well, probably even more than you do. But you can only control what you do. And it just might be that if you change she will change. Which is one of the stories of DB, after all.
Most of all, good luck to you, and I mean that sincerely.
Last edited by Virtually_Handsome; 03/17/1001:42 PM.
