It was an email. H doesnt do IM. As far as I know. I tried to IM him but he couldnt, thru Yahoo. He told me they didnt IM. She could have tried, seeing him online but when he didnt respond, send it as an email. He agreed the time stamp and subject are system originated because it has the date/month thing the American style, we do it the other way around...
The point here for ME is not that he is cheating again. I dont "sense" that, feel that, believe that. I sense that he is not telling me the whole truth because he still tries to avoid the possible fall out it would cause. I am closer to thinking she knows OW, she is interested in him etc, than that he is interested in her... After all, guys, he has sgiven me the password, if they were seeing each other I am sure she would be the first one to know. PLUS, H is not in multi lover mentality thing. He is not a sex driven cheater. He fell deeply in love
The discussion last night confirmed his guilt and what all books say: talking about the whole story and making sense out of it is the hardest thing to achieve (and those of you that had that be very happy about it) and very cruicial. K
