I am confused... is this an IM or email? If it's an IM did he admit to IMing this woman? I mean usually an IM is two way b/t two people, right? IDK, I really never use it.

IDK why but IM seems more personal some how. Why not just use regular email?

The date/time stamp seems weird like she wouldn't put it up there...

Is he IMing b/c he knows his emails are being monitored?

Sorry, just wondering out loud her....

I am not familiar with IM and texting. Does it leave a history? OR does that history get erased when you log off.

Is he IMing in secret? And this was an accidental forward to email on her end?

I honestly have not a clue... I probably am inferring here...


Gosh, would you be as bold as to email this gal yourself and ask what is up? What this is all about? Not sure if I would have to guts....


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)