Next steps

[talia]

I third - no meeting. You are not ready and there's no reason to meet. I'm sure he thinks he can be more persuasive in person than through email, that seeing him might help guilt you... etc.

Keep it all business at this point - I'm not sure you can separate your emotions in person! Its very important to keep a record anyway and email is an easy way to do that.

Every time my H asks for a meeting to discuss things better left to the L I think this.... If he weren't H, given the way he has treated me, would I give him ONE SECOND of my time? The answer is ALWAYS No.... You don't owe him one more second of your life.

Just remember... Life is a measurement of time, if you waste one you destroy the other!

Hugs

T