I'm realizing now that by talking with OW's H and sharing any "family" information puts me smack right in the middle of it (range of fire?), nor a good place to be.
That is a really good place to stand in....
Originally Posted By: Mila
I'm DB'ng but OW's H is not, he is still in the "plead, threaten and negotiate" stage. I will distance when he calls again (I never call him, he calls me).
Yea, those discussions usually don't end well...
You could commiserate together, all that will do is give YOU an excuse to stay stuck in the misery of "poor Mila"
You are DBing, and becoming a better person. As you do, you will see the difference when these things happen, of the Higher Road.
The difference in healing with love , and healing with bitterness.
These are all tools you can use for the future, whether or not it is with your husband....just in your next relationship.
