newmama - i totally understand what you are saying. Let me say that the only contact that has been made has been friendly and supportive of each other and the situation we have both found ourselves in. I really only have talked to her a few times since she called me, and several texts (mostly forwards from OM about how my W meant nothing to him....those went over well with my W)

I do want to reconcile with my W, but there are some things i still need to clear up (which she feels like i am beating her up about) before i can say for sure we are together.

Right now the tree has been removed from my home and trying to repair the whole in the roof....not sure how long that is going to take and making my W upset (i called her selfish on this one)


M-37 W-36
S-11, S-9, D-4
PA exposed 3/13/10
10/19/10 moving on...
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