Thank you everyone for the kudos and smiley faces

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Actually Kaw I tried a line like the blanket one...it more or less went over his head I think that night he was pretty much hearing only what he WANTED to hear (he more or less confirmed this when he apologised). He has as many problems as I do seperating some present happenings with past ones. I believe his x gave him hell everytime he deployed, he EXPECTS me to do the same and it discombobulates him when I don't. It doesn't mean HE acts any differently at the time...it just means I'm more apt to get an apology I guess once he gets a chance to think about it I run up against this in a couple of other areas as well. Hopefully we'll get it figured out some day

Unfortunatley H is being somewhat of a jerk today I'm tossing it off to just a mood but that doesn't mean I'm pleased about it I even waited until it seemed as if the mood may have gone away and tried to explain to him how it had been causing me to feel. I didn't say " You did such and such you lousy SOB" or anything like that
I said " Hon, I would like to explain to you that when you say/yell at me when I am trying to be considerate after realizing I was ignoring you, I end up feeling like hell" That statement got me accused of once again being bitchy and whiny My tone was very neutral (I had waited a an hour and a half to calm down first ) I think I'm not even going to TRY to understand this one...it was bad enough that he shut me out afterward

Someitmes I think/feel I can never win

We've been having a great weekend otherwise

~SHrug~
Zoo

"If patience is worth anything, it must endure to the end of time. And a living faith will last in the midst of the blackest storm." - Mahatma Gandhi