Into my arms... #70

[awest1217]

Good for you to talk while holding each other. That makes it harder to get mad at each other. I understand where you are coming from completely and if I was to ever get where you are, I would have the same questions, and my H has said before when I asked questions that if he came home he would want to bury everything and start new. I think I could handle some of that because if he truly wants to start new and become a new man...why not let the past be the past, but at the same time, e-mails like the one you intercepted bring everything back up so if he wants the past to stay in the past, he is going to have to step up and not let the memories come back to you. He has to guard you by being completely honest and really keep all women at a football field's length so that you can see he is trustworthy.

I think you handled everything last night beautifully. Now it is time to take care of you. Sort through everything and go with your instinct just like you told me.