See how could you believe him- pointless! He did not offer a full explanation only a piecemeal one.
This is why you need independent verification. You are never going to know. A PI will see if they are spending inappropriate time together.
I'll be honest- even if it's a friendship where he spend lots of time wit her, it's time taken away from you and him as a couple. His energy right now should be focused on the relationship you have.
Just my thoughts.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)