Despite what you may think about me, I can appreciate much of what you have just said here. I have been for some time staring in the mirror and am not entirely happy with what I see. Yes, there is anger, but not hatred. I am working on it, struggling with it. That's why I am here and one reason why I talk with my friends in our bible study support group.
What I am surprised by however is your vehemence in raking me over the coals. When I don't recall your offering any input to me before this. And up to a point your statement seems measured and reasonable, but then it goes way beyond.
Why would you even consider me possibly losing my children to be better for them? Why would you entertain that as a welcome outcome? What would motivate such an extreme impulse to suddenly post something so bombastic like that to me in this thread? Why so little tact?
I'm sorry, but I now have to question your motivations. Which is unfortunate because it colors whatever point you're trying to make.
Perhaps you can elaborate on where you are coming from in this? Are you the child of D? Did one of your parents bear resentment towards the other? Or are you the parent in your own situation to which you are projecting?
