Spoke to W tonight, She has told kids that she will not be going on holiday as it would not be fair on them as is not likley that we will get back together.
She then gave me an ear bashing over writing letter to OMW, passing information, accussed me of spying etc. W knew a lot of detail about stuff said between me & OMW presuably passed on by OM. W seemed taken aback by comment that OM had told wife he wanted to work on their marriage. Tone at start of conversation was quite aggressive but by the end was much more subdued. All the way through, I remained calm, detached but also reinforced that I still cared & stood by the things I had laid down in terms when W left and of what I intended to do about looking after boys, what I was prepared to do to help W if she wanted IC etc. Kept it away from discussions about our R. By the end of the discussion, I could have sworn that she almost had warmed to me BUT she got nothing back in return.
