Hello all,

Just popping in for a quick update here as I've had my hands full as some of you can attest from my posts in other threads. Nothing really new to report thus far as my W (aka STBXW) and I are approaching another 4-way meeting with the L's, although my W has been making noise to everyone lately about how she has broken things off with OM for good and oh by the way she never had sex with OM the three evenings that they were out together and at his place. Curious, as it's always been understood that OM is/was the Ultimate Soulmate without flaw. Whatever.

In any event, between these little blurbs and hearing some really good news from my buddy DDAY about his sitch, I guess I'll keep this thread open here a little longer in this forum...even though I know it's long. Who knows what could happen. For now though, keeping detached and focused on the kids and the business end of things. Regards, BJ


M: 41
W: 39
S: 11
S: 10
D: 4
1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09
EA began: 2/14/09
EA discovered: 3/1/09
I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself
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