Well I guess as I was supposed to I figured this one out on my own. I let it go. I can't stop H from doing any of what he's doing. I've detached further.
At the beginning when H first left he was more careful as to what he let me know as far as what he was doing with ow. Now that I've backed off I guess he just figures that I don't care anymore and whatever he does is OK with me.
One of his complaints as he was getting ready to leave was that he thought I didn't love him like a woman should love her husband. I wonder if H will ever understand how much I did and do love him by letting him go.
