Advice on possible EA

[Quart9]

Are you both still living in the same home? I hope you have not moved out.

"My wife has always had a good head on her and I dont think having an affair is something on her to do list..." You, me, and a lot of other people on this board said the same thing about their W or H and found out quite the opposite. If you have read other sitches here you already know this - keep it in mind.

Why in the hell was OM at her sister's b-day party? Is her sister cool with her bring OM around? I also agree she should not be talking to other men about y'alls sitch and you should tell her you are not comfortable with that.

If she works w/ OM she has contact w/ him everyday so she may not have much of a need to contact him outside of work (especially if he is married w/kids). Consider looking at her phone bill - you know multiple calls/texts to the same number. Do you have access to her e-mail?

Confronting other man does not seem like a good idea. It would make you look bad and could land you in jail. In the other sitch's I've read here it didn't help much and in my own sitch it made no difference.

You are lucky if you already have sandi2 and Greek responding to you. Others will come by to help.