hey, good for you to prepare yourself for when you know H comes out of the woodwork.

and I'm really sorry other people say that about him. I think I'd be asking..."why do you think that?" or "that would be nice". you probably did the right thing though, but that would irritate me too. I would want to know what facts they are basing this on.

but, regardless, you are doing better, and it doesn't matter what they think.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."