Tom, I am so sorry to hear this! IF you W is in MLC, you cannot believe anything she says...it is hard to differentiate between a WAS or an MLCer. I finally determined that my H is in MLC and maybe has been for years.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1539436

Here is a link to the MLC resources. Look at the WAS vs MLC thread and see if you can see you W in there. It may change how you look at your sitch....

I hope your divorcecare group helps! WAS has not filed for Dyet, right?

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing