I have followed the DR approach but then I tweaked it a little. Through-out this thread in everyone of my post I would try to provide an update of our current state and how each day/event played out (A aside).

This situation is very hard to wrap my head around. How can I influence or draw her back to me? How do I melt the ice around her heart?

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10