Hope4Luv and Lost1234,

You ladies are honestly doing well and fine, even if you don't see it just now.....you will later on, though. smile

Even if I don't always post, I still do look in when I come to visit to see what's new. smile

The frustration of limbo land is pretty hard to take...I remember those days. smile

You're ready to move on with it, and they aren't...the "sane" spouse really does get ahead in the world, finishing FAR ahead of the MLC'er..it's sorta like you "hurry up and wait", then it gets on your nerves to wait, because they're SO slow.

Yet, you know, you don't want them to not finish their journey; that can cause MORE problems down the road..and you really don't want to deal with that if you don't have to.

Just wanted you two to know, I love you both, and am rooting for both of you....and I do enjoy talking to you two when I can. smile

Much love to you both,
HB


Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.