DU, I would tell the people that they should contact your H directly. If they ask why, say "sorry I don't want to get into it". Yes, they'll figure things out, but unfortunately it seems like you're cornered on that one if people want to make a fuss over your H. And no I would not attend those events. I think it would be SUPER uncomfortable.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
