CW just wanted to comment about the people in your town talking about your H filing for D.
Yes, it does make for fun gossip. But the other reason people talk could be because it scares them that if it happened to you two, it could happen to them. KWIM?
About your response to the L regarding H filing for D...that did answer my Q and totally explains what people are talking about when they say D takes a long time! I also read that your L can make it drag out longer if you want them to! Is that what you asked your L to do? I guess it means $$$$$ though, right?
I understand about the computer. I do make conscious efforts to play with S in a different room so I am not tempted!! Being a baby, he does take naps, and goes to sleep early so I can freely get on. But my TV shows on the DVR are piling up,LOL!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004