Gatsby, the downside to W(ayward) H visiting was well, seeing WH! The benefit was the relief. I don't have good family support so I really was/am alone without WH visiting to take care of S. Since you do have good support, you will be in good shape!!!
It's awesome that you love your job! I can't wait to go back to work! I had to let my work know by March 1 2009 if I was coming back or not the next school year (they are holding a place for me for the 2010-11 year). Well at that time, I was thinking WH and I were in the process of reconciling so I said no. Once I found out otherwise, I thought that the benefit of staying home would mean I would get to at least see my S more than when we divorced so I should take advantage of it. And when I am feeling restless about wanting to go back to work I remember this gift! I am a teacher so my job runs Sep- June. If I had a different job, I would have returned by now I think!
Last edited by newmama; 03/17/1004:08 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
