obstacles 1. guilt/pain/not feeling like raising son & daughter while i work/in care of strangers/causing more resentment/hatred for h Just remember many many moms out there dont' have the option of staying at home to care for their babies due to finances. Long term studies show that daycare doesn't harm the kids
2. cost of daycare for both of them you will get child support from the divorce
3. sleep deprived and having to go to work no getting around it 4. no support from anyone versus the support you get NOW??? but your H will have custody from the courts... 5. doing it all bymyself except when h wants to drive by/which i need to cut him off completely from me and kids and this is different from the present in which way?
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not waiting on husband benefits
this one gonna take me some time.
i'm getting upset.
Jstar, please understand that all of us have our personal reasons for wanting to stay with our WAS so truthfully I cannot tell anyone they are wrong! Do you still love your H? Do you see any potential for being happily married one day? If so, then that is a different story. I just think from reading your thread that you already sound like a single mom. (((Jstar)))
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
