Your w sounds like a drunk, a cutter, and extremely manipulative.
That crap about you "assaulting" her while she was asleep is pure B.S. too.
Oh My!!!
A "drunk" is someone who drinks every day and to the point of affecting their daily life. While my WAW has used alcohol as an escape in the past, she is not a drunk.
A "cutter" is someone who does so on a semi-regular basis. Not someone who did so once in a moment of desperation.
While we are on the topic of definitions, as per the legal definition of assault, I did assault her.
Thanks for the effort anyway.
Oh, hey, no problem.
Yeah, it does sound kinda bad when I say it out loud like that, but the ridiculous histrionics and disingenuousness are there none the less.
Why sleep naked with a man who "assaulted" her? The "childhood issues" seem awfully convenient and coincidentally directed only at you.
And P. S. Lots of drunks don't drink "every day" and the booze is probably affecting her "daily" life more than you realize.