Something else- it would be amazing if your spouses who ended the As could share their insight/reflections. FOr example, Allen, when you finally got to the point that made your wife end her A, did she tell you that you should have done it sooner? Or was it just the right timing? And others out there (don't mean to single you out!!!)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
