You've got a gut feeling on this for a reason.

I read a stat somewhere that a PI stated that 95% of people thinking that their spouse is cheating are correct.

Gosh, I tried to find a good source to quote for that statistic and could only come up with this website
http://www.eyespyinvestigations.com/michigan-cheating-spouse-investigations.php

I know that I have read it elsewhere though...maybe in a marriage repair book, not sure....

OK, to be totally redundant- will a direct conversation reveal the truth from him??? Given his history? Only an opportunity to cover his tracks better.

I really am not trying to be cynical here. I hope it nothing....

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)