Harley teaches that you can't meet the emotional needs of a spouse when they're still actively cheating -- they will be physiologically blocked to you. You must first separate the addict from the source of the addiction, and THEN, yes, you need to set about the hard work of repairing the marital relationship, including your own role in its demise, including not meeting their emotional needs.
Puppy
Harley's the man, thanks for the cover yet AGAIN pupper
man I am gonna be coverin yer back for years now! lol
