You did so good! That sounded like some friendly, dare I say, flirting? I wouldn't go out and order the 50th anniversary invitations yet, but this is good. You want light, playful banter. How you would be with a friend because you need to become friends again first.
And stop dwelling on how he's harped on you or things not or never changing. It's all MLC/WAS talk. Yes, those were legit issues in your R, but you probably had most of them in varying degrees right from the start of your R. Does that make it doomed? Um, no. You have to remember that they're colored by his unhappiness. You know the saying about looking at things through rose colored glasses--well this is the opposite. He's seeing your R through gray cloud colored glasses which make things seem 10x bigger too.
Me38,H:38,S:7 Married:6/99 Bomb:7/04 Sep.:5/05 D Filed:3/08;Final 1/10 Piecing:11/09 H moved back:09/10 Current thread: http://tiny.cc/htcty
I wouldn't go out and order the 50th anniversary invitations yet, but this is good. You want light, playful banter. How you would be with a friend because you need to become friends again first. 
