Please let differing opinions continue. Obviously there is more than one way to reconcile; some may take longer than others. But to be honest, I can only count like 5 people who are giving advice that HAVE reconciled (I know others are out there but where?)! It would be helpful if people put info in their signatures.

NOT TO DISCOUNT ADVICE from those (of us) who haven't reconciled yet because we all know about hindsight.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004