As I understand it, in this instance, the two couples held the conversation over speakerphone so that everyone heard what was said.
Um, you do know that people who are cheating LIE, right? Like, pretty much ALWAYS?
Look, I'm not in favor of constant snooping. But there are some very specific times when it's appropriate:
In general, I'm only in favor of snooping when:
- your initially trying to confirm an affair;
- as a gathering of evidence for a "cause" legal action of adultery, or to help you make a decision about custody;
- to confirm no-contact, as part of a MUTUALLY-AGREED-UPON transparency plan;
- you are concerned about dissipation of marital assets, or a drug, gambling or alcohol addition, or some other behavior that might prove harmful to the family.
