We just spoke briefly,and she acted fine with me. I wished her a happy Birthday (since I screwed up this morning), and she said thank you. She told me about her day and that my D4 and D14 had printed up happy birthday pictures, colored them, and hung them all over my wifes bathroom. She said that made her day, I asked my D14 to do something like that for her this morning.

At least she ended up having a good day even though it started out bad. I'm thankful to my daughters for doing that for her.

I will chalk this up as another lesson learned (unfortunately the hard way), and use it to improve myself. I have a long road ahead, but that's why we're at these forums right?

Any comments or advice at this point would be greatly welcome. I have 4 more weeks and then I go home to face the music so to speak.


Married 18
Me 39
W 37
D 15
D 5
Divorce Filed 8 April 2010
Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept