Pro: umm...Look like a positive person: hey, I am cool about meeting with you! and check out how thin I have remained! (but I have to lose this cut/black eye first--I literally walked into the door frame last night and my glasses cut my eyelid--now I'll have a nice scar) We could ?talk? about how to proceed on the house. Assuming I can buy him out. I could be calm, positive, acting as if I have moved on. Which I am trying to.
Con: emotional? I am well past any DB'ing here--so what does it matter if he sees me hurt, I share some feelings--one of the probs in our R was my/our lack of comm around feelings. he guilts me into selling the house to him? he tries to scare me with the work/burden of the house? he hands me an invitation to his and GF's wedding?
He has asked nicely and sincerely 3 times to meet to discuss how to proceed around the house. I don't want to look like I am afraid to meet.
I just don't think talking about buying each other out in the house, over the dining room table would work.
Suggest a neutral place? Request having a counselor present?
Pro/Con...it's a wash. We've met before. We haven't spoken/seen each other since December. We are polite people.
