Are you getting good marital advice?

[Allen A]

I don't know, Lotus. Allen's posts are not the ones that lately I find to be argumentative and insulting. I thought it was actually a pretty civil, and certainly THOROUGH, point-by-point response to your ad hominem attack. You must have a different definition of "browbeating" than I do.

Thanks pupster, ya got my back again.

I actually believe you were the one to coin the MWD affair-busting approach as the "bo-peep strategy" lol

And at the time, it was a reccomendation for something more aggresive... we later came up with the Ghandi strategy which you gave the five whistles. lol

I find this thread more or less to be a back and forth between these two approaches...