flowmom, my H and I separated 2 days before you and your H, and my stomach still hasn't calmed, either. I don't know when that happens. I'll go days and feel just fine. Then I'll feel physically sick and like I'm on fire inside. I had a physically rotten moment like that last night. I could have crawled into bed and stayed for days if I'd given in to it.
But you have an ulcer, right??
Too true, flowmom! The fiery feeling is legitimate. There are definitely some feelings of anxiety in my stomach, too (it feels sort of like beetles instead of butterflies).