Don't worry. I think your MIL will think about what you said and will understand. Something I am grateful for is that my inlaws have been supportive, especially my SIL, and she has babysat for me at least 5 times now! SHe really wants me to ask for her help more.
Even the hard core guys out there say that having your WH's family's support is good! Now will you have any of them at your birth or allow them to visit? It's your choice.
About what your WH said about the M being over and him wishing you'd "just get it" are what all WAS say, A or not! So just no that is par for the course. :-(
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
