I knew I shouldn't have answered the phone. It was WAH's mum. She's been great generally, and wants us to get back together, but I can see now how communication with wellmeaning friends n family can start to interfere with ones DBing efforts! She was upset that I didn't think at this stage it would be possible for H to be in the birth. She said that's "not nice". And I said, a bit aggressively, "No - what H did to me is not nice! I am just trying to protect myself and bring this baby into the world peacefully". I said we'd see in 2 months time... Furious, and need to get breeaaaaaaathe through the anger and get rid of it & get back to detachment & positive mode.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
