On one hand it's helpful for them to see DBing efforts on our part, but really, when you are trying to survive the first month or 2 after the baby is born, there's not much energy (nor should there be) for DBing!!!
Yes, I imagine this is completely so! I suppose that is why I see these next two months as so important for me..it will be the only time I can DB with all my energy behind it. It's so good to read about your experience - you've been here...
Originally Posted By: newmama
SO before the baby was born, I could have found a way to let him know that I want him to be able to see his son as much as he wants, but would need a balance between seeing him and protecting me from seeing my H since it is too painful to see him while we are not actively married. Shouldawouldacoulda...
Yes, setting boundaries....we have to heal.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
