Wow Kimmie got an axe to grind. That approach would work if Mila wants an end to her marriage. I always think it's best to take the higher road. We all know your h is in the wrong, but does it make sense to do as he does or try for some understanding and forgiveness when the time is right.

Mila I would caution you on talking with ow's h. What benefit is that for you. Just puts you in the middle. Let it go and work on yourself instead.

Continue to put those goals in place and gal. Makes more sense than to chat with ow's h. I am sure he has a hidden agenda.

I am on vacay this week. So excited to get away and enjoy time off from work, kids and dog.

How's your spirit?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"