Grit I guess I am confused with detachment..I feel like when I become more detached (caring about myself more...realizing that this relationship has been toxic and I need to separate..know that I am better right now without him...the feeling that I cannot imagine him back at this house)..I have that clarity. When I think about all of this being so final- I get cold feet. I don't know what I am supposed to feel right now.
Why the cold feet?? Am I not fully detached? How can I completely be OK with divorce? I have spent 10 years with this man? so many memories and good times. So many bad times that we survived together. I just don't understand. When I speak to my friends and family...it seems like the logical answer is to let him go and find someone that will love me like I deserve. Can you explain more.
