LFA--here I am! I have been at the theatre all night/day--got that little show up and running doing set AND lights!!

But on to you--I'm so sorry you have to deal with him moving into the apt. on such short notice. Arrrghhh!

I think I remember you saying staying with your bro was problematic? can you deal with it short term?

I completely know the horror of having X right next door, that's for sure!

There's nothing you can do about it, right? it's his place, too. (same with me! I'm sure we're twins).

How much separation is there between the house and apt? can you arrange your schedule to come/go before/after him?

or just get the heck out and get to your brother's asap?

I will look for you on FB. I really hope we can connect via voice.

Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process