I don't know how I'll handle this. W has used me a couple of times for free baby sitting so she could spend all night partying with her best friend in a small town 30 minutes from here.

After I figured that out, a couple of times she "offered" me extra nights with them I turned it down because I thought she was just looking to go drinking with her townie buddies.

One time I was right and she just left them with her mom all night. Another time she just stayed home with them.

I was torn both times. I obviously am not to the point where I don't care what she's doing. Maybe that'll have come by the time we get to that part of the negotiations.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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