<< "Our chat this morning at 9:50, 16/3/2010" What's strange is this woman (a friend???) putting a precise time and data on the subject of an e-mail???? Friends don't do that. She sounds desperate just like the hundreds of messages I see when I care to look in my spam folder which I simply throw away without opening. No need to get upset - if your H is such hot property that all these women are after him and he comes home every day and cuddles with you why be afraid to talk frankly with him and get to the truth? If your H is going around bad mouthing or complaining about you to other women then its time to confront him as this is destructive behavior. But find out before you get upset.