I was thinking something along the lines " you bastard, when did she see you and what the f@ck is going on with this one" -blond again
(((Kalni))) go easy on both of you. If your adrenaline is pumping try to wait on the conversation. Easy for me to say, I know. Can you go for a quick walk? It's good to give that fight-or-flight energy a physical release.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
She might be interested...but he is definitely invested at home.
You said when you asked about her a while ago he didn't even know who you were talking about - that's a good sign.
Don't jump to conclusions. You are probably reading her intentions right, but you don't know what's going on. You are reacting out of fear and pain and the past.
Focus on now. Deal with now.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
<< "Our chat this morning at 9:50, 16/3/2010" What's strange is this woman (a friend???) putting a precise time and data on the subject of an e-mail???? Friends don't do that. She sounds desperate just like the hundreds of messages I see when I care to look in my spam folder which I simply throw away without opening. No need to get upset - if your H is such hot property that all these women are after him and he comes home every day and cuddles with you why be afraid to talk frankly with him and get to the truth? If your H is going around bad mouthing or complaining about you to other women then its time to confront him as this is destructive behavior. But find out before you get upset.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
