Flow, I was just going to post it. I kind of forgot about it until my friend reminded me! And then I realized why I was feeling so especially "out of body" and restless. I remember talking to my SIL last year and she said that it could take a year before my WH started to come around, based on what she has learned from her experiences with her H's A and with counseling etc. I remember thinking "could I be strong enough to wait that long?"
Well I should at least leave the house. So I will.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004