Cut to last night...He texts me and wants to know my terms for his freedom...I didn't lay out anything as cut and dry however he started with his retirement and spousal support - Told me if I was seeking either one, he would send the Security Police to my house to confiscate my ID card and if that happened, I would also lose my health and dental (tied into my ID card)...
He's trying to baffle you with BS. The SPs can't do any of that. Stop taking his calls unless it is related to the boys.
This is why you need a L.
And why said L needs to have a copy of any threats and blackmail your H is so foolish to put in writing!
Oh, and "P.S." -- Coach and Gardener and I are gonna come and kick his ass.
And why said Serenity isn't as stupid as H is lead to think...All the texts and voicemails along with emails he has been so unwise to sent...I have a copy of it all...I may be a blonde and I may have my moments however I am not a dumbass.
Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Coach and Gardener and I are gonna come and kick his ass
You know I love you guys and this - Made. My. Day.
He can recant until the cows come home - I have no use for it anymore...
I have a backbone now...
I removed the welcome mat
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
Was it just a month or so ago when you were leveled by his spew from the child support issue? Girl, YOU ARE A TOTAL ROCK STAR!!!
Hand all that stuff over to your lawyer, let your lawyer tell you what you're entitled to, and let your lawyer deliver the info to the A$$clown.
All of that is an attempt to keep you in check. Seriously? He asked why you were doing this TO HIM??? Batchitcrazy!
I hear a woman who knows her value and who has a clear vision of what she will and won't expect. Bravo!
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
Thank you for your beautiful comment to me in the alt...
You're welcome. Sounds like you've finally reached your name: Serenity. I've read some of your pithy and funny comments to Reggie. You've come a long way, baby! You don't even remotely resemble the Serenity I was drawn to and befriended months back.
When my house sells and I leave the NorthEast, my route is going to take me down south first so I can swing by and meet you, my friend. And gima, of course, and Coach and Greek while I'm down that way, and there's so many I'd like to meet and thank in my long circuitous trip to the NorthWest.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
You don't even remotely resemble the Serenity I was drawn to and befriended months back.
Please tell me this is a good thing?
Come on down my friend - You are always and forever welcome...
As for Reggie - You notice as I called him out more and more he realized what I was trying to get him to see without beating him over the head with it.
I am getting there - Once the decision was made and cemented, I was done yesterday and wanted nothing more to do with it...I feel so free and peaceful and calm and will never allow another man to take that from me.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
