Actually, re-reading the original post leads me to the same conclusion.
Apologies to AmyBel, I didn't mean to presume.
In that respect, For Men Only by Shaunti Feldhahn may not work for you. I would recommend the companion book For Women Only, but the author does state that they are written with the assumption that the reader is in a heterosexual relationship.
Last edited by TrentC; 03/16/1010:02 PM. Reason: Whoops, disregard that book!
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement