Cut to last night...He texts me and wants to know my terms for his freedom...I didn't lay out anything as cut and dry however he started with his retirement and spousal support - Told me if I was seeking either one, he would send the Security Police to my house to confiscate my ID card and if that happened, I would also lose my health and dental (tied into my ID card)...
He's trying to baffle you with BS. The SPs can't do any of that. Stop taking his calls unless it is related to the boys.
This is why you need a L.
And why said L needs to have a copy of any threats and blackmail your H is so foolish to put in writing!
Oh, and "P.S." -- Coach and Gardener and I are gonna come and kick his ass.
